Despite all the negative press regarding "stealth submission", I am dedicated to living a life of "stealth" service to my vanilla wife. My goals are two-fold. Firstly, I aim to serve her as best I can (as difficult as this may be in a "real" setting that involves the pressures of every day life and the challenges of raising a young child). Secondly, I hope to awaken her dominant side.
My objective for this blog is to share my successes and failures in this lifestyle. I am a little over a month into my stealth submission and will provide details explaining some of the things that I have been able to keep up.
Here's a bit more information regarding the 2 goals mentioned above:
1) My aim to serve my wife as best I can:
3 guiding principles have helped me keep this going for the month.
i) My purpose in life is to serve my wife (she is my raison d'ĂȘtre).
ii) My wife is always right: This does not mean that I do not provide my input. I do. However, I do not argue with my wife, I do not raise my tone, and ultimately concede to her on all decisions.
iii) I will always obey my wife.
Repeating these guiding principles in my head throughout the day has helped keep me focused on my service.
2) My hope to awaken her dominant side:
Patience is key here. Especially in my case. My wife is as vanilla as they come. However, I am convinced that by taking baby steps, we will be able to make progress.
I am convinced of this for two reasons. Firstly, I have realistic expectations (I know that my wife will never have me kiss her feet on command!). At best, I think she will take it for granted that I am to do all the housecleaning and laundry. Secondly, we have already made significant progress in one area of our lives: the TV remote control (more details to follow).
Sunday, August 23, 2009
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The very best of luck, I will follow your blog with interest.
ReplyDeleteWoo hoo!!! Jump off that spring board....!!!
ReplyDeleteEnjoy. For me, finding the contentment of living under my wife's authority is more then worth it. It is better then I could have thought. There are many unexpected benefits too. Just the peace of expressing my honest desire to live in obedience to her is well worth leaving behind the equality standard we use to live by.